Mental Game

On Being a Professional…and Sometimes a Brat

At 32, I occasionally have to remind myself that I am no longer a young adult… I’m full-fledged and all, even though I often get mistaken for a college student (which is nice at times—if you look young, people expect less of you. I can deal with the condescension I sometimes get at work because …

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New Year’s Eve lunch was a big win. Takin’ one for the team at dinner…

Joe and I found out that Owl House is having a set dinner menu this evening, and as a result we decided to go there for lunch while Matthew was still with Mimi (my mom). Win! For dinner, it looks like we’ll be stuck with the original plan (to please my rib-lovin’ nephew), and we’re …

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Bring yourself back to your body, even if you have to do it 1,000 times a day

“The problem isn’t that we have bodies, the problem is that we’re not living in them.” – Geneen Roth When I talk to people about the concept of mindfulness, their eyes usually glaze over.  I use a person’s reactions to my initial comments as a gauge to help me figure out how far to go …

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We are not really victims, but our thoughts often make better walls than windows. The solution? Change your thoughts.

I just finished watching the local news, which was reporting sensationally on the health of women in the US. Note: 12 states failed, and no state excelled.  We’re not surprised, right?  They noted that the states doing particularly poorly were those who did not have any legislation about health, or any promotional or educational campaigns aiming to …

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