Have I mentioned that I love working from home? Doing this has been my goal for quite a while, and I’m totally basking in it right now. I’m also sweating because it’s really hot in NY…and that’s totally fine with me!
I’ve readjusted back to reality from vacation, and I’ve even got my vacay laundry in the dryer right now—I love summer clothes—they take up way less space in the washer and dryer than winter clothes do!
One of the biggest complaints (or barriers) noted by my clients is that they don’t have time to put their wellness first. Honestly, I don’t have a direct solution for this, but I do think that no one is as stuck as they think they are. Maybe you can’t change your situation right this instant, but what if you can do one little thing today that heads you in the right direction?
I did that in 2008. I had just started a wellness coaching job for a corporation. When I saw the job ad, my first reaction was, “Oh god, I don’t want to do that.” …but the only other jobs I could find at the time were continuing seasonal adjunct teaching and $8 an hour recreation jobs at senior centers. Apparently, at the time I also thought I was sick of personal training.
Anyway, I took the wellness coaching job, and was driving to three trucking terminals, two office buildings, and a manufacturing company every week. I had to wear khakis and an orange polo shirt–nicknamed The Monkey Suit, by my friend Monica, and I had quotas to fill. It was important for me to talk to an average of 10 people an hour, and at the same time…show that the populations’ aggregate biometrics and stats were improving. The job itself was stressful–I had to approach people while they were working and offer help/biometrics/information all while keeping participation voluntary and optional. There were two sides of the coin: make it look good to employers and actually help real live people.
I always felt like I was bothering people. It took me a long time to find my niche, and then as soon as I did, I was moved out of all those locations except one and put on one university campus 40 hours a week…to offer coaching to 700 faculty and staff, which later expanded to 1500.
I’ll be honest, I loved the people who clicked with me, and I almost gave myself a heart attack about dealing with the rest of them. I can say that even though I haven’t stayed in touch with every single person who worked with me, that I really cared about and loved all of them. I even made some friendships that will last for the rest of my life. At that time, I was training for a marathon (that I never ran, but that’s another knee-busted story), and I preferred to do my training on the Erie Canal path at 6am alone with the turtles and my garmin.
I felt stuck doing a job that stressed me out, on a schedule I didn’t prefer, and carrying my office on my back (literally—I had no office and carted with me my laptop, notes, and Tanita body composition scale...uphill both ways through 10 feet of snow). So as I ran, I listened to motivational podcasts, and even guided meditations—which maybe I shouldn’t recommend doing, but I’m just being honest. I visualized what I wanted my life to look like. I didn’t have a clue how I’d get there, but I visualized the end product and conjured up what it would feel like. Part of my vision included me working mostly at home.
It’s three years later—I’m not sure exactly how it happened, and it didn’t happen all at once, but I’m mostly working at home now 🙂
I brought fitness back into my professional life, and I attended an amazing Mind-Body Skills training…so now I am living the career trifecta of my dreams (well, about 90% there…there’s always room to make it a little better, right?). I’m working with individuals and groups on improving their fitness, food, and mind-body skills. I don’t have to sell wellness to anyone—the people who resonate with how I work come to me, and I love them all.
It also leaves me the freedom to (1) Not blow dry my hair as often, (2) Jump on my rebounder everyday and go in my infrared sauna, (3) Meditate and do yoga more often, and (4) Make my personal life just as important (more, actually) compared to my professional life.
Are you where you want to be in your career or your personal life? If you wanted to change, (1) what is your end goal and (2) what is one tiny thing you could do today to move yourself in the right direction?
Now…for some fabulous WIAW Florida food pics:
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Also…don’t forget to check out my guest post on the SunButter website!
ahhh i’m so jealous! I miss Florida! east coast, west coast, and the panhandle too! alllll of it! <3 Your FL eats look marvelous too! That view is perrrrfection! <3
I've missed you so!!!!!
Gorgeous pictures. I’m really enjoying that white sand right now. As for being where I want to be career-wise. No. But I am trying to angle my position in a direction I prefer and it’s going that way…slowly.
Love your eats from Florida! Makes me miss living there =)
I love the pictures! How beautiful.
Lisa I love that you are where you want to be — you obviously worked very hard and you should be so proud! I am not where I am at professionally and I only hope that as time goes on (and as I put in the time/effort) that my actions will pay off.
making personal life more important than proffessional is something i really strive to do! you are so lucky to work from home. and major props to you for sorting out life to make that possible :).
yes, I doubt Ron would ever yell at us – he’s too awesome for that! 🙂
I love the sunset – so beautiful! the eats look wonderful too…
I love your inchworm story – such great progress you should be VERY proud of! <3
So when I did the laundry last week it seemed odd that our hampers were not overflowing? Then it hit me, it’s warmer out! lol
I’m not where I want to be in my career or your personal life, but I hope to be closer within a year or so!
I love nunaturals, thanks for the heads up!
Now, onto the meat of your post- I can really appreciate this. I found reading your story inspiring. I kinda sorta know what I want ( like the logistics of of things), but don’t have it down completely, or you better believe I would be giong for it! The other “barrier” in my way is that I happen to love my current job, and get to walk to work, and have a ton of freedom to do what I want. So really, I’m not that motivated to leave 🙂
It’s posts like this that allow me to take a deep breath and realize I am not alone when I get lost on my path. I am going to school for dental hygiene, but feel like it is taking me forever to get there..this dissuades me into negative thoughts about whether this is what I want to do or not. Then when those thoughts come, I figure I am trying to take the easy road and quit. I don’t know where I will end up, but for now I have come to terms with the fact that I am taking the long (scenic) route to my ending career, and maybe even then I will decide I want to do something else! It’s never too late to do what you love. My small change to move in the right direction was to STOP stressing! I figure I will end up somewhere I am meant to be! It’s awesome that you have found where you are happiest. Your career sounds so rewarding. OHhH anddd I need that sauna..how awesome!
so happy for you!!! glad things are working out for you 🙂
ah…those sunset in florida pics are delightful *sigh* – i want to be back there. will your mom adopt me, please?! i’ll move with y’all in a few years! i don’t mind the average age thing at all!
“the career trifecta of my dreams” – – i love this phrase, lisa. thanks for sharing a bit of your work background – man, it does sound like it was stressful. i would feel like i was interrupting people, too. congrats on making your career dreams reality. i love my job…will i be there in 20 years? who knows! we’ll see where the road leads…
haha, yes caps DOES indicate enthusiasm!
have a great day – i love heat, too, and we’ve got a simply gorgeous day here.
seashore? don’t mind if I do- I wish!!
I have been thinking more and more about a career lately so this was great to read! I’m only going into my junior year of college but it’s surely time to think about it, I think.
I love sunbutter! Better head over now 🙂
that’s it…must have goat cheese with my supper tonight!
Ahhhh I miss being unemployed and never having to dry my hair! Or wear make-up… it did wonders for my skin.
I still want to open a vegan bakery someday… I guess I need to keep practicing but it’s hard living alone with no one but me to eat it!
There is really not much in life that is better than goat cheese 🙂
I’m sure my mom would love to adopt you—we have a “more the merrier”
attitude about adding to the family…especially people who love the beach!
I’m so with you—the stopping stressing does wonders for my mind 🙂 It’s
easier said than done sometimes, but makes a big difference. My mom has this
saying, “Leap and the net will appear.” I like to think that if it feels
right to follow a long-range dream, even though the muck of the process
isn’t so awesome…in the end, we’ll all end up in exactly the right place
🙂
I have glimpses of that feeling too—I can pay my bills and feel really
good day-to-day just by doing what I’m doing, but I think I could probably
push myself to do more/better things too. Seems to be all about
balance—testing the balance of the comfort zone, and making good things
happen, but not creating undue stress or upheaval! I have faith that we
will all do what’s best in every moment 🙂
I also love the freedom that I get from working at home.
That beet and goat cheese salad looks amazing!
I wish I could work at home! That sounds amazing…no more straightening haha! I just got a new job so I start in a couple weeks. I’m extremely excited, and ready to start a new chapter of my life!
I love this! I would love to work mostly from home someday – we’ll see. 🙂
“No one is as stuck as they think they are.” How insightful, so profound. I’m chanting that tonight on my walk. Thanks!
Lisa, you must have been reading my mind today!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey to being so happy in your career. I know you’ll find that last 10% of satisfaction very soon.
I am really enjoying writing/blogging full time. It was not something that I had planned on doing a year ago but I am loving it 🙂
I took a small step toward making my blog exactly the way I want it by deciding to go ‘rogue’ with my advertising. I’m going to slowly pull away from large advertising affiliate networks and deal directly with (ideally small and independent) companies. That way I cut out the middlemen and get to decide who and what I am promoting.
Thanks again for sharing, it’s inspirational! 🙂
LOVED reading this post!!! Amen! So glad to hear you’re happy and loving life! I made the move over a year ago to work 75% time and then from home. This gave me more time for incorporating more group fitness teaching into my life and to decrease my stress! I am absolutely loving it. The food looks so good- especially that Beet and goat cheese salad- droooool
This post is so spot on for me right now! You are an inspiration. It’s my dream to work from home or at least design my own hours and schedule (not sitting behind a desk for 9 hours a day, like I am now!) Thanks for sharing this!
I’m glad you mentioned the sauna. I just joined a fitness center that has an infra-red one and now I’m inspired to use it, even though I hate being hot. 🙂
omg I have been craving scallops!! they look so good
we grew up on the gulf coast 🙂
You’re so pretty!
WOAH i need those beets. looks delicious! i’ve been realizing lately that i must have been focusing on what i wanted as well after all the time we’ve spent talking about this kind of stuff… even though i didn’t know exactly where i was headed, i knew that it would eventually arrive. now… new apt, new job, (new car!) … and … i’ve now got a house in my sights. 😀 as my brother would say 30’s > 20’s! are we getting together this week?
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